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RELATIONSHIP
REPORT
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TOM
CRUISE
and
NICOLE
KIDMAN
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BIRTH DATE:
July 3, 1962
June 20, 1967
BIRTH NAME:
Thomas Cruise Mapother
Nicole Mary Kidman
CURRENT NAME:
Tom Cruise
Nicole Kidman
UNDERSTANDING
EACH OTHER-
AND
THIS RELATIONSHIP
People form relationships for many reasons.
Sometimes, they fall in love or find someone they admire. Sometimes,
they want to make someone else happy or want to add interest and
adventure to their lives. Very close relationships form when people
enjoy the pleasure of each other's company enough to want to share
their lives.
Relationships,
of course, are ever changing. They shift and evolve as the individuals
in the relationship grow and get to know one another on a deeper level.
No matter how good a relationship becomes, it can get even better when
the two people learn to accept and love each other just as they are. As
you continue to broaden your understanding of each other, Tom and
Nicole, you're likely to enjoy an increasing acceptance and affection
for one another.
This
profile can help you gain some of that understanding by clarifying your
personal characteristics and motivations. It will give you a picture of
the kind of individuals you are and, at the same time, explore the
dynamics involved in your relationship. The descriptions in the profile
are based on the science of numerology.
As
you read this profile, you may find that you've already addressed some
of the areas mentioned here. On the other hand, particularly if this is
a new relationship, some of the issues discussed may not yet have come
to your attention. In general, though, you'll find that most of the
profile focuses directly on many subjects of current significance in
your lives.
FIRST
IMPRESSIONS
Tom:
You're
interested in the material world and may enjoy challenges related to
business and finance. Whether or not you're actively involved with
business matters, though, you usually appreciate when others acknowledge
your status and power. With your strong interest in money and
possessions, it isn't surprising that much of your activity relates to
your material needs.
You
have an interest in people, too, and derive considerable satisfaction
from your interaction with others. At times, you give generously and
lend a helping hand. On occasion, you also enjoy change and stimulating
activity. You're usually interested in new ideas and free-spirited
ventures which can expand your horizons.
Nicole:
Your
interests run in a number of directions. You enjoy change and
stimulating activity. You're usually interested in new ideas and
free-spirited ventures which can expand your horizons. You enjoy people,
too, and derive considerable satisfaction from your interaction with
others.
You
have some interest, too, in the material world and may enjoy challenges
related to money and business. Some of the time, though, you may prefer
to involve yourself primarily with your inner world and private
interests.
Tom and Nicole:
Nicole,
you're usually interested in reaching and maintaining a stable and
comfortable life style. You enjoy situations which allow you to grow and
change with a minimum of disturbance to the stability you like so much.
On occasion, though, when you can look beyond your need for stability,
you may exhibit a strong interest in developing your potential. At those
times, you're usually on the lookout for favorable chances to enhance
or expand your life.
Every
now and then, Tom, when you recognize promising possibilities, you enjoy
making the most of them, too. Much of the time, though, you may not be
clear on how to develop situations with significant potential. It's
worth discussing these matters with friends or colleagues so you can get
a better grasp of the situation and a better understanding of how to
make the most of the possibilities.
HOW
THE TWO OF YOU GET ON WITH
OTHER
PEOPLE-AND EACH OTHER
YOUR
ADAPTABILITY
Tom:
Much
of the time, your strong personality along with the forceful pursuit of
your interests contribute to your important leadership potential. These
significant traits, though, often interfere with your ability to be
adaptable. Since you usually have such a clear picture of the best way
to take care of a given situation, it isn't always easy for you to
appreciate others' needs or to change your approach to satisfy those
desires.
Sometimes,
though, when you're feeling particularly close to friends or family,
you're willing to adjust your plans so that others can get their needs
met. At these times, you're willing to put much more effort into
finding out what will prove helpful to other people.
Nicole:
You
can be flexible at times. When your own needs are involved, though, you
often concentrate on yourself. When your needs are strong, it may not be
as easy as you would like to reach satisfying accommodations with
others. Close friends, particularly, may be puzzled by these lapses. On
the other hand, when your own needs are fulfilled and you're aware of
others' desires, you often change your actions to allow other people
considerable leeway.
Tom and Nicole:
As
you probably know, Nicole, things go reasonably well when you're
accommodating. If you find somewhat more argument and discussion in your
life than you want, though, it may be worth stretching a bit so that
you're flexible more of the time. Tom, in particular, will be most
appreciative of your increased adaptability. Spend the necessary time
taking care of your strong needs but try not to lose sight of others'
needs while working on your own.
Since
you can be flexible at times, Tom, you already have a foundation on
which to develop additional adaptability. If you can be somewhat more
accommodating with those you hold close-for instance, when some of
your lesser desires are involved-you may be surprised at the
difference it makes. When you make an effort to understand where others
are coming from, you're more likely to adapt to meet needs other than
your own. You may find that you run into a lot less in the way of
confrontation when you do that. When you combine this increased
flexibility in approach with your strong personality, there's likely
to be a considerable improvement in your ability to relate to
others-most importantly Nicole.
YOUR
SOCIABILITY
Tom:
Your
interest in socializing varies a good deal. On occasion, you receive
considerable pleasure and satisfaction in getting together with others.
When you're in the mood, you enjoy parties. When another mood strikes
you, you may be just as happy to spend your time with a few close
friends. Some of the time, though, you prefer to devote yourself
primarily to yourself and your own private concerns.
Nicole:
Socializing
is sometimes important to you and sometimes not. When socializing is
important, you generally look forward to attending parties and other
get-togethers and in spending time with your friends and colleagues.
When some exciting interest or activity attracts your attention, though,
your concern with socializing frequently decreases.
There's
also a cautious side to your nature. You may hold yourself
aloof-sometimes even tend to withdraw-when it's not clear what
kind of a reception you're likely to receive. When your confidence
level is high, you won't have to deal with this kind of trying
situation.
Tom and Nicole:
The
two of you enjoy socializing with other people part of the time. Each of
you also needs to be by yourself or working on your own private projects
on occasion. Most of the time, you can plan your socializing with a
minimum of problems.
There
are times, though, Nicole, when you prefer to see few people and attend
few gatherings. As long as you can make it clear to Tom that you want to
spend time by yourself, the two of you can probably make comfortable
arrangements. At those times, Nicole, if you can occasionally manage to
spend some time with people who are important to Tom, that favor is
likely to be much appreciated.
YOUR
RELATIONS WITH PARENTS, CHILDREN
AND
OTHER RELATIVES
Tom:
It's
easy to see and appreciate the caring regard you often display with
parents and close relatives. You take part in family get-togethers and
enjoy spending time with close relatives, too. Much of the time,
you're available when your family needs you, ready to assist in a
caring and responsible way. When your own interests are urgent, though,
they sometimes override your usual concern for others.
When
you show an interest in children, as you do at times, they're often
delighted. They respond particularly when you exhibit the joy and
exhilaration you like to express. It isn't surprising that you want to
give a lot to your own children. On occasion, though, they may not have
your attention when they especially need it because of your involvement
with your own pressing matters.
Nicole:
A
good deal of the time, you're there to help out when parents and
family are involved. You enjoy your relatives' company, too, and allow
some time for family get-togethers or smaller family social affairs. On
occasion, though, your own activities may get in the way of your family
responsibilities.
At
times, you show your liking for youngsters. They enjoy your enthusiasm
and delight when you choose to share that part of your personality.
Naturally, you have a particular concern with your own children and
generally like to give them the caring and attention they want. On
occasion, though, you have to choose between their needs and your own.
When your children ask more of you than you want to give, you may
sometimes become resentful. Also, at times, you may keep your children
from games or other activities that don't feel safe or desirable to
you. When you're overly protective, your children are likely to voice
their objections.
Tom and Nicole:
Both
of you often show your loving concern for parents, children and close
family. Your parents-and offspring, too-frequently get the kind of
affection and attention they want. At times, you both pitch in and help
with family matters when help is needed. Sometimes, too, you share the
responsibilities with each other when the load is heavy. When either of
you display the lighter side of your nature, it may be very helpful in
reducing the tension in trying situations.
Both
of you have other needs and interests that may sometimes take precedence
over family obligations. It would be worthwhile to clarify your mutual
needs and concerns so that one of you can take over family obligations
when the other is caught up in outside interests. On occasion, too,
Nicole, when you're overly protective, you may prefer that Tom take
care of family affairs, particularly in regard to the children.
HOW
THE TWO OF YOU GET ALONG
EMOTIONALLY
AND SEXUALLY
YOUR
SENSITIVITY TO YOUR OWN AND
EACH
OTHERS' FEELINGS
Tom and Nicole:
Your
sensitivities can often be of help to each of you. At times, you both
have a good sense of your own feelings and can be perceptive enough to
pick up on other people's feelings, too. You can sense when people's
moods change and can adjust your own approach to take those changes into
account.
On
occasion, though, when one or the other of you share your insights and
find that your views aren't accepted, you may feel hurt or resentful.
When this happens, you may want to do some inner searching to get a
better understanding of yourself. Until you get to know this area
better, you may choose to play down your sensitivity so that you feel
less vulnerable.
At
those times when you're both sensitive, you can achieve a special
harmony that's likely to add a closeness to your relationship that the
two of you appreciate. When either of you isn't sensitive to the
other-for whatever reason-that intimacy isn't likely to be
present. Try to maintain your usual awareness when you're concerned
that the other might not be understanding of your feelings. That extra
effort on both your parts could count for a lot between you.
YOUR
ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE
Tom and Nicole:
The
two of you are often willing to discuss most matters in a free and easy
manner. The lively side of your natures is frequently apparent in your
conversations. Others are aware of the inborn spirit you both possess
even if you don't choose to emphasize it all the time. You can usually
tell other people how you're feeling. Most of the time, too, you
communicate reasonably well together and that draws you closer together.
For both of you, though, as for many other people, your emotions
sometimes get in the way.
When
either of you hold back your feelings, it may be difficult for the other
to deal with these repressed emotions. When one or the other of you
expresses feelings more mildly than you're actually feeling
them-irritation, for instance, rather than the full-blown anger you
actually feel-the communication isn't likely to be clear, either.
Your communication with each other-as well as with other people-can
improve markedly as you both learn to clarify your feelings.
YOUR
ABILITY TO GIVE LOVE AND AFFECTION
Tom and Nicole:
Each
of you has an affectionate side and can often be tender and admiring.
You both frequently demonstrate an involved and caring approach.
You're likely to be devoted to each other much of the time. On
occasion, though, when you're not certain what kind of a reception
you'll receive when you display your affections, the two of you are
likely to hold back on your feelings. You may also limit the affection
you give to each other because of some temporary concern about the
other's willingness to respond. At these times, it would be worthwhile
to discuss and resolve any dissatisfactions or misunderstandings that
seem to be standing in the way.
YOUR
PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY
Tom:
In
your sexual activities, you frequently express your desire for intimacy
along with the passionate side of your personality. You enjoy showing
your affectionate nature and receiving similar tenderness in return. You
enjoy a sense of excitement and variety in sex, too. A sense of intimacy
along with some variety is an ideal combination for you.
Nicole:
You
want a sense of closeness in your intimate relations. You often display
your loving side and find satisfaction when that love is reciprocated.
You also enjoy the diversity and adventure often associated with sex.
When you can have both the intimacy and the diversity, you receive
considerable pleasure. If you don't find it easy to discuss your
sexual desires, though, it may not always be apparent to others what you
would like in this area. When you can discuss your needs openly you'll
be more likely to get what you want.
Tom and Nicole:
You
have similar needs for intimacy. The two of you can often give to one
another-as long as you each are willing to make the effort to
understand the other's desires. In addition, the variety you both
bring to your sexual activities can increase your mutual pleasure. The
sexual part of your relationship, then, should provide the two of you
with satisfaction.
HOW
YOU BOTH DEAL WITH MONEY,
BUSINESS
AND POSSESSIONS
YOUR
APPROACH TO MATERIAL AFFAIRS
Tom:
By
and large, you're usually realistic about material matters. When
you're resolving personal concerns-major purchases for your home,
for instance, or planning vacations-you tend to be rational. When
you're involved with work or career, your conclusions are generally
based on a reasonable view of the facts at hand. You may get upset or
excited a bit more than others, though, causing your objectivity to lose
its edge. In these situations, you may not analyze the facts with the
kind of care you usually use. Most of the time, however, your sense of
realism shines through.
Nicole:
When
you're working on the practical affairs that concern you-matters
related to your work or personal life-you're reasonably objective
much of the time. When you are guided by your idealism or find your
emotions intensified, though, your realism may sometimes desert you.
When you're worried that others may not be properly considering your
interests, you also may not see the picture as clearly as usual. When
you calm down again, your discrimination and powers of analysis usually
return quickly. By and large, you have a good grasp of the facts. Your
findings generally appear to rest on a grounded view of reality.
Tom and Nicole:
You
can often work together comfortably on material matters. Much of the
time, you look at the world with a similar sense of realism and
objectivity. When you're involved with material affairs, you
frequently see the facts of the matter in much the same way. When you
each get emotional, though, your strong feelings may distort your
approach. In addition, Nicole, you occasionally get somewhat dreamy and
considerably less objective. At these times, both of you aren't seeing
matters with your usual clarity. At times when either of you lose your
objectivity-for whatever reason-it may take a bit of effort for the
objective person to help the other to see matters more realistically.
YOUR
CAPABILITY IN THE BUSINESS WORLD
YOUR
ABILITY TO EARN A LIVING
Tom:
Your
potential for significant achievement is certainly there. You have the
ability to do well in business and to be amply compensated. You
understand money and financial matters, and have excellent executive
skills. If you can run your own firm or have a significant
administrative position in someone else's firm, your needs in this
area should be well satisfied. If you're not involved directly with
business matters, you may put some of your management skill to good use
in your avocations or your private life instead.
Nicole:
You
can do well in the business world when you choose to use your management
or organizational capabilities. Your ability to produce and maintain
order is a special skill which may bring you considerable satisfaction.
You can also work hard, often when complex details are involved, with
good results. When you combine these business capabilities with some of
your other talents, you may be able to make an even greater impact. You
may feel just as comfortable, though, making use of these skills in
places other than the business world.
Tom and Nicole:
Tom,
your assertiveness, determination and strong motivation will be of great
help in your business achievements. Your unique approaches along with
your ability to work long and hard will also stand you in good stead.
There's a fixity, though, Tom, and an individualistic manner that
sometimes goes along with your driving approach. They may, on occasion,
alienate some of your colleagues and slow your own advance. You can make
more of your business potential when you're more flexible and operate
with a lighter touch. Nicole, you also have good business ability but
you aren't necessarily inclined in that direction. When you choose,
though, to make use of your business skills along with your ability to
work long and hard, you may produce good results. You exhibit a
stubbornness, too, Nicole, that at times may annoy some of your
associates. When you're more yielding, you'll find that you can move
ahead more easily.
YOUR
MUTUAL AMBITIONS
Tom and Nicole:
Tom,
you want a comfortable material life. You have some ambition and often
work toward your objectives with vigor. You're frequently willing to
tolerate a good deal of strain in pursuing your material goals. You have
some ambition, too, Nicole, but it's usually less pressing than
Tom's. You're generally far more interested in the excitement of
your ventures than in the money or recognition that may be forthcoming
at their completion. On occasion, though, you accept quite a bit of
stress in these activities, too.
At
times, there may be some pressure in your relationship, brought on by
the strains in your business ventures. You both may want to clarify
whether the gains are worth the problems generated by the stresses. The
two of you may also want to discuss your respective efforts and
contributions in finance and business. You may need these discussions so
that you both remain comfortable with your differing material outlooks.
HOW
THE OPPORTUNITIES AND
INFLUENCES
IN 2002 WILL AFFECT
YOUR
LIVES TOGETHER
Tom:
At
this time in your life, Tom, you're likely to have a desire to expand
your interests and develop your creativity. You also want to enjoy
yourself on the lighter side of life. This could be a satisfying period,
with many opportunities for fun, adventure and new exciting friends.
Although the opportunities are undoubtedly present, you have to feel
free enough to seize the opportunities so that you can make the most of
them. Try to offset the frivolous nature of some of your activities by
the serious development of your creative ability. Don't let yourself
be bullied by anyone trying to take advantage of your fun-loving side.
The
broad ongoing concerns just described may occupy you for a number of
years. Of more immediate effect in your daily life, though, are the
specific areas of interest which attract you. Let's look at the
specific areas on which you're apt to focus your attention in 2002.
This
could be a year with a great deal of variety and excitement. Be prepared
to make some important changes in 2002, mostly changes that you initiate
yourself. These changes will usually play a significant role in opening
up new and advantageous opportunities.
You're
likely to have a strong desire to expand your horizons this year as well
as to take part in the many new experiences that seem to come your way.
This is a perfect time to make and enjoy new friends, have adventures,
travel and enjoy all sorts of social activities. Above all, 2002 is a
time to delight in freedom, to move away from old routines, and to seek
out new interests.
Make
the most of the excitement and progressive potential this year without,
if possible, overdoing it. The odds are good that there are far more
opportunities this year than you can deal with comfortably. Although it
may take all your effort, try to pick and choose carefully and follow
through only on the opportunities with the greatest potential. With your
restlessness, impatience and impulsiveness, it may be difficult for you
not to try to take advantage of everything that comes your way. If you
succumb to your usual feelings, you may find yourself overwhelmed with
opportunity and incapable of making progress in any direction.
Although
you may have a lot of fun, excitement and adventure in 2002, you may end
the year with considerable frustration if you feel that many significant
opportunities have slipped through your fingers. This could be a special
year for you, though, if you've learned how to control your
restlessness.
Nicole:
You're
apt to have an interest in getting to know yourself better at this time,
Nicole. In all likelihood, you want to spend more time alone than you
usually do-studying, doing research or meditating-so that you can
become more aware of your inner needs. You may also want to use this
quiet time to become more spiritually aware. There's an excellent
prospect that you're concerned, too, with developing your close
personal relations, your sensitivity to others and your ability to give
in the way of friendship, affection and love. Sometimes, your
introspective needs are likely to take precedence but, at other times,
your people-oriented needs may be more compelling. This can be an
important period when your sensitivity to yourself and other people can
be markedly improved.
You
may be occupied for several years with the general interests described
above. In addition to those general interests, though, there are a few
specific areas of concern which have a much stronger impact on your
daily life. Let's examine the specific areas of concern which are
likely to attract your attention in 2002.
This
year can be both exciting and fulfilling, particularly if you can
express the joy that you feel in life with great cheer and enthusiasm.
If you are fully aware of the pleasures and happiness in your
environment, this could prove to be a very special time. There may be
lots of friends and social life and, possibly, much delight involving
love and romance. With a little luck, you may often have minimal
responsibilities. If that's the case, you may have considerable time
to play and enjoy the lighter side of life. If, on the other hand, you
find yourself burdened with responsibilities, it's important to allow
some time to leave those obligations behind so that you can rejuvenate
yourself. This year may be the time to take that special trip you've
always dreamed about.
This
is a good time to express your creativity. Although you have a lot of
creative potential, you may still not be using it fully. Unless you
trust your good intuition and make the most of your distinctive creative
imagination, you're likely to be impeding your progress. If you appear
too critical or overly sensitive, you may offend some of the people who
could prove of help to you. Try not to scatter your substantial
energies. When you're self-indulgent or extravagant-possibly more
often than you care to admit-you're likely to run into problems.
Tom and Nicole:
This
could be an exciting year for the two of you. Chances are that you'll
both experience considerable change and variety. Both of you are likely
to have a good deal of new and intriguing activity throughout the year.
Make
sure you both express your feelings well so that your mutual
communication remains clear. If you're both involved in the same
activities, you may have many chances to enjoy each other and to further
your relation. Try to keep a balanced perspective, though, so that your
energy is used as constructively as possible. Otherwise, one or the
other of you may finish 2002 with little sense of accomplishment-and a
good deal of frustration.
If
you're each involved in different ventures, make sure you allow enough
time to spend together. At the least, make time regularly to discuss
problems as they arise. Make sure that the smaller problems between you
don't get blown out of proportion and cause rifts in the relationship.
You can be of considerable service if you can objectively view each
other's activities and help each other to stay reasonably grounded. If
you can both maintain a good balance, this can prove to be a very busy
and very satisfying year.
WHAT
YOU CAN BOTH EXPECT
FROM
THIS RELATIONSHIP
Tom and Nicole:
The
two of you now have a good idea of your significant personality traits
as described by numerology. You have a good idea, too, of how you can
expect to be treated by each other-and how you both relate to parents,
children and friends. You're also aware of your corresponding traits
in regard to business and financial matters.
The
beauty and success of your relationship is partly dependent on these
characteristics as well as the efforts the two of you are willing to
make to more fully understand and appreciate each other. The significant
interest that you both have in people forms an important link between
you. Both of you may also have some involvement with business affairs
and enjoy material possessions. In addition, Nicole, you have a strong
desire to explore the excitement and variety in the world around you.
When you both share some of your experiences in these areas with each
other, the two of you may derive considerable closeness and pleasure.
Don't be surprised, though, if there's a certain amount of give and
take involved before you feel completely comfortable together. The
differences in your personalities may serve as opportunities to learn
from each other's strengths.
The
concern, trust and good will that you both have for the other are of
considerable importance. There's one factor, though, that matters more
than all others in making this a successful relationship. A good life
together depends on the extent of your personal commitment to help each
other develop, both as individuals and as part of a loving couple.
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A
Numerology Analysis
for
Tom Cruise
and
Nicole
Kidman
by
Your Name
and other info
Birth
data:
Thomas Cruise Mapother
July 3, 1962
Nicole Mary Kidman
June 20, 1967
©
Copyright 1988, 1998, 2001. This
report is based on the work of Hans Decoz and Tom Monte.
Copyrights to components written by Decoz and Monte belong to
Hans Decoz. All rights
reserved.
INTRODUCTION
HOW TO READ YOUR
RELATIONSHIP COMPATIBILITY REPORT
When two people are involved in a relationship, they get to know
each other more deeply over time. At
first, everything is wonderful and friction is rare.
Then, as time goes by, you get to know other sides of your
partner and, undoubtedly, discover some personality traits you don't
like, and other traits you appreciate.
The more time you spend together, the more you get to know each
other. But even if you
consider your relationship almost perfect, you will certainly experience
at least some areas of possible friction.
The purpose of this report is to point out the different
personality traits you possess, and how compatible they are.
This report will help you identify those properties that are, at
least to some extent, not compatible, and suggest how to prevent them
from damaging, or dominating, your relationship.
It is important to also keep in mind that you may have some
qualities that, although positive, are not compatible, but that negative
traits are almost always a cause for friction.
Therefore, you may find that this Relationship Compatibility
Report is at times more critical and perhaps somewhat harsh - unlike
most readings of this kind. If
you feel uncomfortable with that, remember that this report was designed
to throw light on those aspects in your charts that need to be
understood and recognized, because if they are not, they can do a lot
more damage than a few critical remarks in a reading.
Tom and Nicole, you will probably encounter some texts such as:
"The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already
included in other parts of this report, offset by other conditions or
redundant".
This is done in
order to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as
possible, and repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on
them.
Master numbers are also handled somewhat different in a
relationship compatibility report. They
are reduced to their single digit values, because it is in the single
digit's archetype that those personality traits are represented.
If a number that appears in your chart is 11, 22, or 33, and the
compatibility refers to the numbers 2, 4, and 6 respectively, this is
not a typo but an indicator that the compatibility is based on the
single-digit sum of your Master number.
You will also find that some numbers normally included in a
personal numerology reading are not included in a relationship
compatibility report. This
is because the compatibility between two people is influenced much more
strongly -- as much as ninety-five percent -- by the core numbers, than
by all the other numbers in the chart combined.
In fact, the lesser numbers in the chart would only muddle the
waters if analyzed in the context of a relationship compatibility
report.
Tom and Nicole, I hope you will enjoy your Compatibility Report
and, more importantly, I hope you will find this reading to be
beneficial to your relationship.
LIFE
PATH
If ever there
was a moment of total transformation, it was the moment of your birth.
In that instant, you stepped through a door in time into a new reality
-- the reality of human life. The most important number in your
numerology chart is based on the date of your birth, the moment when the
curtain goes up in your life.
Even at that moment, you were a person with your own unique
character, as unique as your DNA. Everything that is you existed in
potential, much like a play that is about to begin. Your entire life
exists as a potential that has been prepared for. Tom, you have ultimate
freedom to do with your life as you like: To fulfill its potential
completely, or to make some smaller version of yourself. It all depends
upon your effort and commitment. You make the decisions to fulfill, to
whatever extent, the potential life that exists within you. That is your
choice. In this sense, the possible you is implicit during the moment of
your birth.
The Life Path number gives us a broad outline of the
opportunities, challenges, and lessons we will encounter in this
lifetime. Your Life path is the road you are traveling. It reveals the
opportunities and challenges you will face in life. Your Life Path
number is the single most important information available in your
Personality Chart!
Your Life
Path's compatibility is 1 and 4
Tom and Nicole, your Life Path numbers are the most important
numbers in your charts, and, as such, their compatibility is very
important to the well-being of your relationship.
This aspect of the chart reveals a combination that can be solid
as a rock for a long time only to crash and burn in the blink of an eye.
Stubborn, highly motivated, a self-starter and an unconventional
individualist, Tom is also adventurous and not afraid of trying new,
even risky paths. Strongly
driven, the number one doesn't usually give a hoot about other people's
expectations. So, Tom does
whatever Tom wants to do and will fight anyone and anything trying to
get in the way. Nicole is no
less gifted in the areas of persistence and ambition.
However, the number four stands for everything that is sturdy,
reliable, patient, responsible, conventional, detail-oriented and
"doing things the way they should be done." And this is
precisely where some possibly dangerous pitfalls for this relationship
lie. Nicole has both feet
firmly on the ground. Undeterred
by the prospect of having to take care of things that might be boring
and routine, Nicole will do the job, no matter what.
Nicole will not step aside just because something is difficult or
may take a lot of time. The
four marches on until the job is done.
Period. Tom, on the
other hand, does not have that kind of patience.
When the forces are no longer in Tom's favor, it's time for war.
"Confront the challenges head on with a 'damn the
consequences' attitude" - this is Tom's dilemma.
This can be a thriving relationship as long as Tom doesn't start
on a path of unknowns and risky, questionable results.
However, that will unavoidably happen and Nicole will at times be
seen as a stick in the mud, a source of frustration for Tom.
When this kind of situation becomes overwhelming, it will almost
certainly bring this relationship to and end.
On the other hand,
as long as Tom is able to respect Nicole's need for a secure, perhaps
even predictable, lifestyle, and Nicole can understand Tom's need to try
new avenues, take risks, occasionally venture out into unknown
territories, the relationship can endure.
EXPRESSION
Your Expression
number reveals your physical and mental constitution, the orientation or
goal of your life. Some
numerologists refer to this number as the Destiny, because it represents
a lifelong target at which you are aiming.
You work at fulfilling this potential every day of your life.
Thus, the Expression number reveals your inner goal, the person
you aim to be.
The Expression number reveals the talents, abilities, and
shortcomings that were with you when you entered your human body.
Your name, and the numbers derived from it, reveals your
development, as well as the talents and issues you will be working with
during this life.
For those for whom reincarnation is an accepted philosophy, the
vibration of your full name can be seen as the totality of your personal
evolution, the experiences, talents, and wisdom accumulated over many
life times. Every
experience, no matter how great or small, along this evolutionary path
has influenced your development, and brought you to your current state
of being.
The Expression is your being; the Life Path is the major lesson
you are attempting to learn this time around.
Time allows the gradual emergence of your personality.
By reading the Expression number below, you will come to
understand your basic nature and the abilities and issues inherent in
your being.
Your Expression's
compatibility is 4 and 5
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number
reflects who you are as a person. Earlier,
you read about the Life Path number and how important that number is in
your chart. However, the
Life Path number reflects "the path you walk on," and should be seen
more as a powerful influence than as a part of your personality makeup.
Your Expression number on the other hand, reflects a deeper part
of you. It is more difficult
to overcome possible negative traits you may have recognized in yourself
when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found
under the Life Path description.
It can't be emphasized too much how important it is to realize
that numbers in different areas of the chart affect you differently,
even when it is the same number. Sometimes,
you may read something that seems to directly contradict earlier
statements. Yet, if you take
the time to think about them carefully, you will probably recognize that
you, as a human being, are extremely complex and full of the same
contradictions. This is
simply the way we are. You
may be organized in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another
area. You may be tactful and
sensitive in one setting, and direct and confrontational in another
situation.
Tom and Nicole, you make up a challenging combination.
Tom likes routine and predictability, while Nicole prefers change
and the unexpected. The
numbers four and five stand for each other's polar opposites in many
ways. And, interestingly,
this is often where the initial attraction lies.
Tom is drawn to Nicole's daring, adventurous, dynamic and
energetic life. On the other
hand, Nicole admires the control and discipline Tom seems to have.
Quite often, this
combination makes for a dynamic relationship comparable to a roller
coaster ride. So, it is not
difficult to conclude that this combination can only survive if your
mutual love is strong enough to give each other room to live the life
style of your respective choices. There
is nothing gained by trying to change your partner.
Your needs are simply too far apart.
Tom will have to
accept the fact that Nicole is not predictable and, therefore, Nicole
will never be happy living a too-structured life where everything can be
forecast. Nicole should make
peace with Tom's need for a more organized and controlled environment.
Very different
attitudes can also be noticed in other areas.
Nicole is sensual and feels totally comfortable with other
people. Nicole is more
social and, probably, has a wild streak.
Tom can be social when the occasion calls for it, but Tom will
always keep a certain amount of distance.
When choosing company, Tom is more discriminate and tends to hold
on to protocol longer. Although
as a rule more conventional and careful, Tom can, when the occasion is
just right, reveal an extrovert, even outrageous, side.
When it comes to
opinions, Tom and Nicole, you will find yourself on opposite sides more
often than not. Tom may be
Republican while Nicole votes Democrat.
Tom needs a somewhat structured spiritual connection.
Nicole's spiritual world is very imaginative and more
changeable. Tom may be much
more willing to accept rules and regulations that Nicole will try to
break with every opportunity.
Of course, these
are just examples provided to give you a picture of what this
combination may bring about, and not to be taken too literally.
Interestingly, this
kind of relationship can be very powerful and long lasting.
The key to achieve that is not to take yourself and your concepts
too seriously - something Tom in particular may have to work on - and
maintain your sense of humor. If
you can do that, you will be able to enjoy each other's company
instead of getting irritated by the differences you encounter.
So, keep in mind
that opinions are just opinions, with relative values.
On the other hand, a sense of right and wrong, a moral
foundation, should not be relative.
Sometimes, we find ourselves confused, attaching the same
importance to our opinions and moral convictions, and when that happens,
it is no longer possible to enjoy or build on the differences.
Tom and Nicole,
this is where the danger lies in your four and five combination.
Once the differences become so important you can no longer
appreciate your partner, the end of the relationship is unavoidable.
Therefore, go ahead and work on developing these two key
qualities - tolerance and open-mindedness - so that you can build a
happy and healthy relationship where Nicole's adventurous spirit and
energy and Tom's control and discipline will stand side by side.
HEART'S
DESIRE
Your Heart's
Desire is the inner you. It
shows your underlying urge, your true motivation.
It reveals the general intention behind many of your actions.
Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in
life. The Heart's desire is
seen as part of the larger picture, called the core numbers, which
includes the Life Path, Expression, Day you were born, and Personality.
But each points to a different aspect of you.
The Expression number reveals your talents and abilities, and
your general direction in life. The
Life Path is the central lesson you came into the world to learn.
The Day you were born is very closely connected to your Life
Path. It reveals specific
talents you possess, which will be helpful to you in dealing with your
Life Path. The Personality
reveals how people tend to see you.
It also demonstrates what characteristics you are projecting to
the world. The Heart's
Desire demonstrates the identity of the soul that joined the earth --
you, the spiritual being.
Your Heart's Desire's
compatibility is 9 and 2
Compatibility of the Heart's Desire numbers is very important in
a relationship - few relationships last beyond the initial stage if the
Heart's Desire numbers are not compatible.
Whereas Nicole is open and easy going in matters of the heart, Tom
is more careful and perhaps distant.
In fact, Tom knows that it is in part this care, this need to
maintain a safe distance, which has caused passed relationships to
crash. It is not easy for
Tom to be deeply involved in a relationship and trust that it is safe to
act un-inhibited, unselfconsciously.
On the other hand, it is natural for Nicole to respond to the
moment without first having to weigh possible consequences.
Nicole can be immediate, responsive and fearless like a child
and, just like a child, feel totally safe.
Always seeking the
shelter of the inner world, Tom needs to learn to let go, to surrender
to the heart, if this relationship is to endure and grow.
You can give love
and friendship left and right, Tom, there is no shortage of love in you.
On the contrary. The
number nine is self-sacrificing and generous to a fault.
Maybe that is the way you release all the love in you.
A problem exists only when this love comes too close to the inner
Tom. As long as there is
some distance, you feel safe. The
moment someone attempts to step into your inner world, you have a
tendency to close the doors.
Nicole, you are
very different. You will
certainly invite Tom to share even the deepest moments, without
inhibition. But when Tom
backs away from that, Nicole, you may well respond with confusion,
jealousy and resentment.
As you may have realized by now, the two and the nine don't get
along too well. Although
both are caring, loving numbers, the idealistic nine gives to the world
and to strangers, while a much more emotionally involved two focuses on
one person as the object of its love.
Interestingly, the
two and the nine can form powerful alliances in other circumstances,
particularly in business. Between
the two of them, they can negotiate and influence just about anyone or
anything. It is in matters
of the heart that their needs and desires are not very compatible.
All this can be countered, albeit with some effort.
Tom, you would help yourself and Nicole if you could "loosen
up" a bit. Relax the
constant vigilance and allow yourself to be more responsive to the
moment.
Nicole, you should
try to understand that Tom's need for some distance doesn't mean the
love is not real, or not as strong as yours.
If you are able to keep that in mind, you'll be able to build a
peaceful, enjoyable relationship. A
relationship, by the way, that can also be very prosperous if you are
smart enough to take advantage of the powerful alliances the two and the
nine allow for, especially in the business world.
PERSONALITY
Your
Personality number is derived from the consonants of your full name at
birth. Your Personality is
like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature.
It is those aspects that you feel comfortable sharing with people
at the outset of a relationship. With
time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your
nature; you reveal more of who you really are, in effect, your Heart's
Desire, Expression, and so on.
Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both
in terms of what you send out, as well as what you allow to approach.
It discriminates in the kinds of people and information you let
enter your heart and mind. For
this reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective
in its definition than the real you.
It can screen out some of what you do not want to deal with --
people or situations -- but it also welcomes those things that
immediately relate to your inner nature.
Your Personality number also indicates how others perceive you.
No one can be objective about himself or herself.
Even our closest friends and relatives have trouble describing
how they see us.
Your
Personality's compatibility is 4 and 3
Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many
relationships even get started unless the Personality numbers are
compatible.
This is both a very promising as well as a very difficult
combination. Nicole reveals
a fun-loving, optimistic side, a creative, playful, perhaps even
childlike nature. Nicole
demonstrates to have faith in life and is confident that things will
work out, no matter what. In
addition, Nicole has a natural, intuitive talent to go with the flow and
escape pitfalls almost effortlessly.
Tom, on the other hand, is much more grounded, practical, and has
a hands-on approach to life. Tom
feels that discipline and focus, responsibility, dependability and duty
are the requirements to create a life of comfort and contentment.
From one perspective, this makes for a nicely balanced
relationship. Nicole's
approach works for Nicole. Tom
has seen the fruits of effort and discipline and knows there is safety
in having at least some control. As
long as life doesn't throw a monkey wrench in your situation, this can
be a harmonious, very satisfying relationship.
But when life
becomes a challenge, when problems - especially practical, material,
worldly problems - come up, Nicole and Tom, this combination of three
and four is one of the least prepared to deal with it.
Nicole, you may well start resenting Tom for taking such a hard,
grab-the-bull-by-the-horns approach, since Tom is not the type of person
who backs away and watches things fall apart.
In addition, it is important that you bear in mind that we are
talking about problems that did not arise between you, from your
relationship, but from outside, issues like a shortage of money, the
loss of a job, an expensive illness, or some other unfortunate shift.
Tom will be tempted
to look at Nicole and question the amount of effort and sacrifice Nicole
is investing during this difficult time.
Blame will feed resentment and anger, and soon, instead of
forming a combined front to overcome the obstacle, you will turn against
each other.
When that happens,
Nicole and Tom, you will need to step back and realize that, although
you may not understand what motivates your partner to respond so
differently from what you believe is the correct and required approach,
you should not judge. Nicole,
you may not believe that Tom makes any sense.
You may well feel that all that effort is misdirected, perhaps
even detrimental to a positive outcome, but Tom needs that effort.
Tom needs to feel that there is some control.
On the other hand,
Tom may blame Nicole for not doing enough, which may be true.
On the surface, Nicole may seem to be backing away from the
problem. Nicole does not
focus on the issue itself as much as on whatever is needed to make it go
away, or, at least, to make it bearable.
Nicole will bring in the optimism and the motivation to go on.
Nicole will point to the light at the end of the tunnel, no
matter how tiny or seemingly far away, and when everyone else is ready
to give up, Nicole will bring in the much needed energy and get you back
on your feet. Nicole is
invaluable during such a time. And
that, too, takes effort.
So, just remember
that, although difficult, yours is also a very promising combination,
and the key to making the most of it lies on not trying to judge each
other, but on combining your many individual qualities.
PERSONAL
YEARS
Your
Personal Year number is a strong indication of the trends and
circumstances you will experience during the year ahead.
Your Personal Year cycles are based on the Universal Year cycles
and therefore run concurrent with the calendar year.
Transit and Essence cycles are based on the letters of your name
and run from birth date to birth date.
There are nine personal year numbers, which makes up a complete
Epicycle. Each Epicycle
reveals the progression or evolution of a specific part of your growth.
Tom, your progress along this Epicycle can be seen very
logically, from the infancy or beginning of a growth period in your
life, to the conclusion or culmination of that process.
The 1 personal year indicates your first steps in a new
direction. The years that
follow indicate your progress along this path, concluding with your 9
Personal Year, which completes the cycle.
Below is a description of your current Personal Year.
It indicates where you are on the 9 year Epicycle.
The Personal Years form the building steps that mark your
progress through life.
Your Personal
Year's compatibility for 2003 is 6 and 4
Compatibility is as important with the cycles as it is with
character traits. It is
possible for a relationship between two people with otherwise very
compatible charts to break down as a result of encountering one or more
incompatible cycles. However,
it is much easier to overcome or avoid possible pitfalls resulting from
incompatible cycles than from incompatible personality traits.
Nicole and Tom, the combination of cycles you are now undergoing
offers a number of opportunities for you to improve the quality of all
aspects of your life. You
complement each other very well. It
is a time of shared effort with Nicole focusing on the practical aspects
and Tom on the heart and health of the relationship.
Nicole and Tom, your energies are in line and enhance all the
good qualities found in the four and the six.
You will experience progress as well as financial growth, and
will also manage to play a larger role in the community around you.
You may even find yourself combining your forces to reach common
goals. Very few negative
influences may come from this combination of cycles.
Even a tendency for Nicole to become irritated - perhaps even
angry - a little quicker during a four cycle is easily lessened by
Tom's ability to reach out and comfort Nicole.
Your Personal Year's
compatibility for 2004 is 7 and 5
Nicole and Tom, this is one of the most healing and loving cycles
you can experience. The five
and the seven are very different, but they get along extremely well.
Nicole is
undergoing a time of changes and dynamic energy.
Tom, you are a bit more withdrawn than usual because your focus
is on your inner life: who you are and where you are going.
Although the cycles tend to influence you very differently --
outward for Nicole, inward for Tom -- these energies thrive on each
other. Tom, your desire,
consciously or subconsciously, to understand better who you are and
where you want to go, as well as the fact that you are more quiet and
subdued, creates somewhat of an aura of mystery around you.
This is very attractive to Nicole, in particular during this time
when nothing else seems subtle and mysterious.
Nicole's charged energy and inspiring attitude has a powerful
and positive effect on Tom, for whom this is like a lifeline to the
"real" world. A mistake
people in Nicole's position sometimes make, however, is to view their
partner's quietness to mean that something is wrong.
Don't make that mistake, Nicole.
The one thing people in a seven period don't want is for
someone else to try to draw them out of that quiet space.
Tom would probably experience that as annoying and intrusive.
Just be together. That
is all it takes to make this a wonderful time of closeness and deeply
felt appreciation.
PERSONAL
MONTHS
Your Personal Month's
compatibility for September 2002 is 5 and 3
Relationship compatibility of Personal Month cycles can have a
powerful effect. But keep in
mind: the cycle is short. So,
if you run into turmoil, it helps to remember that it is in the nature
of a cycle to be only temporary.
Note: The compatibility between cycles is repetitive, as is the
nature of cycles. While the
influence of Personal Month cycles represented by the same number, can
vary greatly depending on the yearly cycle, the compatibility aspect
changes very little. You
will therefore find that the compatibility description is the same when,
for example, a 3 and 4 Personal Month combination is found in a 5 year,
as when it is found in a 6 year.
Therefore, you will find that the possible influence of your
Personal Month cycles never repeats itself within any
one-hundred-and-eight-month period.
However, the compatibility aspect repeats much more often -
generally every nine months - but sometimes even less than that,
depending on your Personal Year cycle.
Tom and Nicole, the influences and compatibility of this month's
cycle are already incorporated in the compatibility as described in the
section of this year's Personal Year cycle. An analysis of this month's
compatibility is therefore redundant. You may, however, want to take
another look at the description of the compatibility of this year's
Personal Year cycle, keeping in mind that the compatibility for this
month will reflect the same influences.
Your Personal Month's
compatibility for October 2002 is 6 and 4
Nicole and Tom, the combination of cycles you are now undergoing
offers a number of opportunities for you to improve the quality of all
aspects of your life. You
complement each other very well. It
is a time of shared effort with Nicole focusing on the practical aspects
and Tom on the heart and health of the relationship.
Nicole and Tom, your energies are in line and enhance all the
good qualities found in the four and the six.
You will experience progress as well as financial growth, and
will also manage to play a larger role in the community around you.
You may even find yourself combining your forces to reach common
goals. Very few negative
influences may come from this combination of cycles.
Even a tendency for Nicole to become irritated - perhaps even
angry - a little quicker during a four cycle is easily lessened by
Tom's ability to reach out and comfort Nicole.
Your Personal Month's
compatibility for November 2002 is 7 and 5
Nicole and Tom, this is one of the most healing and loving cycles
you can experience. The five
and the seven are very different, but they get along extremely well.
Nicole is
undergoing a time of changes and dynamic energy.
Tom, you are a bit more withdrawn than usual because your focus
is on your inner life: who you are and where you are going.
Although the cycles tend to influence you very differently --
outward for Nicole, inward for Tom -- these energies thrive on each
other. Tom, your desire,
consciously or subconsciously, to understand better who you are and
where you want to go, as well as the fact that you are more quiet and
subdued, creates somewhat of an aura of mystery around you.
This is very attractive to Nicole, in particular during this time
when nothing else seems subtle and mysterious.
Nicole's charged energy and inspiring attitude has a powerful
and positive effect on Tom, for whom this is like a lifeline to the
"real" world. A mistake
people in Nicole's position sometimes make, however, is to view their
partner's quietness to mean that something is wrong.
Don't make that mistake, Nicole.
The one thing people in a seven period don't want is for
someone else to try to draw them out of that quiet space.
Tom would probably experience that as annoying and intrusive.
Just be together. That
is all it takes to make this a wonderful time of closeness and deeply
felt appreciation.
Your Personal Month's
compatibility for December 2002 is 8 and 6
Although quite different, these cycles are nonetheless very
compatible. Both of you,
Nicole and Tom, will experience progress in career and other worldly
matters. Tom and Nicole,
this can turn out to be an excellent time that may well bring a
financial windfall.
On a more personal
level, you are also more involved with each other, albeit in very
different ways. For Nicole,
it is simply a matter of the heart.
Nicole feels strongly committed and wants nothing more than to
make Tom happy. For Tom,
there is some awakening of leadership spirit and ambition, even within
the relationship. And here
is where we may encounter a possible pitfall.
Tom, your tact and diplomacy are not particularly enhanced right
now. You are taking more
control of your life, but you have to be careful not to try and take
control of the lives of those you care about, including, of course,
Nicole's life. It is easy
to see how that can become a source of friction: Nicole needs your love,
not your leadership. Focus
your ambition on other things and allow your heart, not your mind, to
control your relationship.
Your Personal Month's
compatibility for January 2003 is 7 and 5
Nicole and Tom, this is one of the most healing and loving cycles
you can experience. The five
and the seven are very different, but they get along extremely well.
Nicole is
undergoing a time of changes and dynamic energy.
Tom, you are a bit more withdrawn than usual because your focus
is on your inner life: who you are and where you are going.
Although the cycles tend to influence you very differently --
outward for Nicole, inward for Tom -- these energies thrive on each
other. Tom, your desire,
consciously or subconsciously, to understand better who you are and
where you want to go, as well as the fact that you are more quiet and
subdued, creates somewhat of an aura of mystery around you.
This is very attractive to Nicole, in particular during this time
when nothing else seems subtle and mysterious.
Nicole's charged energy and inspiring attitude has a powerful
and positive effect on Tom, for whom this is like a lifeline to the
"real" world. A mistake
people in Nicole's position sometimes make, however, is to view their
partner's quietness to mean that something is wrong.
Don't make that mistake, Nicole.
The one thing people in a seven period don't want is for
someone else to try to draw them out of that quiet space.
Tom would probably experience that as annoying and intrusive.
Just be together. That
is all it takes to make this a wonderful time of closeness and deeply
felt appreciation.
Your Personal
Month's compatibility for February 2003 is 8 and 6
Although quite different, these cycles are nonetheless very
compatible. Both of you,
Nicole and Tom, will experience progress in career and other worldly
matters. Tom and Nicole,
this can turn out to be an excellent time that may well bring a
financial windfall.
On a more personal
level, you are also more involved with each other, albeit in very
different ways. For Nicole,
it is simply a matter of the heart.
Nicole feels strongly committed and wants nothing more than to
make Tom happy. For Tom,
there is some awakening of leadership spirit and ambition, even within
the relationship. And here
is where we may encounter a possible pitfall.
Tom, your tact and diplomacy are not particularly enhanced right
now. You are taking more
control of your life, but you have to be careful not to try and take
control of the lives of those you care about, including, of course,
Nicole's life. It is easy
to see how that can become a source of friction: Nicole needs your love,
not your leadership. Focus
your ambition on other things and allow your heart, not your mind, to
control your relationship.
Your Personal Month's
compatibility for March 2003 is 9 and 7
Nicole and Tom, you may feel somewhat distant from each other
during this period. You are
both experiencing a lot of emotions that are not easily understood or
explained. Although you
share the need to be more inward focused than usual, the reasons are
quite different. Nicole, in
what is at least in part a subconscious effort, is seeking understanding
and clarity. Nic |
